Thursday, May 5, 2011

Who I will be?

My goals are to study more and earn a masters degree and then have a payable job.
My  dream is to one day visit the United States and spend a wonderful time there with my whole family. I want my role to be of a good and productive citizen for the future. I want that the people have respect for me and that they could know me as a responsible and good individual. the path to get there would be by gaining more experience . I need to study harder and higher . I will also have to work for achieving my education. In live there are always hard and easy obstacles to overcome it depends from the people how they choose to work towards it to overcome it . I normally work towards the obstacles with patience and with a set mind so that i don't take the wrong way. I overcome them by finding other ways to it but going to the same destination. I plan to change the world by adding to the caring of the country.  For example studying harder so that one day i could earn experience and could provide employment to the young youths . as a matter of facts , poverty will be reduced as well as crime rates and unemployment rate. I am planning to become a productive citizen so that i can set the example to the young's to set goals and share grate rewards to the entire country.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Who I am?

I am currently attending the Corozal Junior Collage being this my last semester for the school year 2011. I like to chat with my friends at school and also when I’m at home. I like sports, specially volleyball and softball which are my favorite games. I love softball so much that I am even playing with a team in a competition held at my village. Other things I like are dancing, going to Chetumal with my mom and helping other people in need of an extra hand. I even like some kinds of food for example rice and beans, Bar-b- Q, and hotdogs made in Chetumal. As other people there are some things that I don’t like; football, jogging, Escabeche, to name a few.
My hobby is softball. I enjoy the idea of playing this sport because it is a game that I grew with. I also have other activities like visiting my granny, or passing the day at my boyfriend’s home apart from having done my home chores of course. I even do a little of cosmetology when I have some time for me. I can spend the whole day painting my nails, designing it or even doing different hair styles to my neighbors just like other people do in beauty saloons. I guess this is my talent because I have a good head for this, I learn just by seeing it once.
I am 22 years old and I don’t think that I have changed anything in my except for the physical changes to which everybody has to go through. I am the same girl that many people knew and still know right now. I am friendly, communicative and even a hardworking citizen. Well physically I have had some changes like I grew up a little, gain some weight and got more beautiful for me.
My strength if I am to name it would be my mother. She is the one that has pushed me forward in this world of challenges. She has taught me to be the person who I am today. From her I learned to give myself respect and to respect others. My other strengths would be striving for more than what I have and to improve where I am not doing well. My weakness would be my nerves. Every time I am going to do something that will benefit me, my nerves betray me at last moment. Even if I practice it before to control it, they always appear at that specific moment of my event. Another weakness that I have is that I afraid to do things alone. I always have a feeling of insecurity with myself when I am to do important things alone. I just feel that I am not capable of achieving my goals alone.
I usually use my strengths to move forward and to reach to a new level of accomplishment for my future. By doing this and reaching to where I want makes me a perfect example of what hard work does for others who are coming in the same path like me.
I guess the only way to improve my weakness is to practice self control and to make myself more secure than before. Trying to do little things alone with my mind telling me that it will be ok would be a good start.
My role at home is that of being a model child for others to admire. With friends would be as a real friend, to have the patience to listen to them and to advice them in times of need. My role with my parents is to be that obedient child they want me to be and to make them be proud as they want to be of me.

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Movie of Precious

Questions for the movie Precious




1. What were the factors that contributed to Precious having low self-esteem?
The factors that contributed to precious having low self- esteem are violence, rape, and early pregnancy.

2. What signs of low self-esteem did Precious display?
The signs that precious displayed of low self-esteem are solitude, eating little, stealing and emotional as being rude.

3. What defense mechanisms did Precious use to avoid dealing with pain? Give examples.
The defense that precious uses was of being rude and of imagery to avoid pain. For example when a
the girl at school told her bitch she just knocked her down.
4. What neurotic needs did Precious over-use or display? Give examples.
The neurotic need that precious displayed were of the neurotic need for power.

5. What helped Precious increase her self-esteem?
The love affection that precious received from her teacher and friends increased her self-esteem.

6. What signs of higher/increasing self-esteem did Precious display?
Signs of loving her baby and socializing with people showed higher self-esteem on precious.

7. What did you learn from the movie?
I learned that with violence no one can stand. As adolescents we should not isolate when we are victims. We can overcome any obstacle in live once we love our selves.
8. Would you recommend the movie to others? Why or why not?
I would recommend the movie to others because they could learn how to overcome a problem like this and not recommend it because it uses too much bad language.

Monday, February 7, 2011

My history

I live at San narciso village, a vivid place where I have spent 20 years of my life. I was born on November sixteenth 1990 to a family who loved me from the time I was conceived in this world. My mother, Marcela Dominguez and father Jose Louis Dominguez decided to name me just as my older sister, something that I Don’t like much because we get confused. At the age of four I started my education at the San Narciso pre-school. I continued there until I reached to standard four when I was transferred to the Presbyterian school at Concepcion Village. It was really hard for me because I missed my old friends from my previous school. I didn’t play with anyone, I never ate and even I used not to do my homework so that my parents would take me back to my old school. Because of that I was transferred again to my previous school where I managed to graduate from.
When I was thirteen I was able to enter high school thanks to my good grades that I obtained at school. That was a different story because some of my friends were with me and we were where we never thought to be. It was an amazing year for me. I got to know other students from other places who became my friends for the year. I was able to move on from form to form until I reach last year where everything was hard work for me because I didn’t want to fail. I lived the best four years of my life at high school. That is what I could say was my best achievement during that time.
For the time being at high school I had a boyfriend who visited me at home. One day he was with me when my cousin reached drunk and wanted to hit him. He was so angry that he started cosing at me and then my boyfriend took me inside the house and my cousin started banging the door until he broke it . That was a shock to me that I just could not control my crying and my nerves. For that night my mother took me to the hospital so that they could inject me so that I could sleep. Because of that experience I still have that trauma that now I can not stand a problem that entails aggression.
The happiest moment I have ever had in my life was a day when my father came from the u.s. and we went to have lunch at a restaurant sharing jokes and enjoying the time being. The saddest moment that I have ever experienced was a time when my father chased me from my home because he was told that I had a boyfriend felt very sad when I heard the words coming out of my fathers mouth . He threatened me by telling me that if I don’t leave he would not send more money for my family. It was the worst experience I have had. The scariest moment I have ever had was at Belmopan city, we went for the riot that the politicians had. It was really scary to see how the soldiers were throwing bombs of gas and how the people were stoning the policemen. I have also had a moment of embarrassment. I really felt embarrassing when I was going to visit my boyfriend and while coming down from the bus I dropped from the steps. The worst thing was that I had to go back home with the same bus. My live has drastically changed in so many ways. During me child hood I used to pay no mind to what my parents really wanted for me. Now that my father is not with us and we have to continue our lives keeping him in our minds and heart. I have learned to value things for what is inside not the cover and also to appreciate and love what we have now and not value it until we lose it.
For the time that I have lived this live I have had many good and bad influences. The bad influences I received from colleagues at high school. They influenced me to do stupidities as to go out with a guy for a day and then breakup. The good influences I have until now is that of my parents who are always telling me how to go on achieving my goals and how to plan my future. My role models on this world is to be a good student to finish my education work and help my parents and to one day have a business which would aim to develop the country and help the young’s plan their lives without passing through difficult times and experience.

Monday, January 24, 2011

IQ and self esteem

Congratulations!
Your general IQ score is 148.


A person whose IQ score falls in the range of 144-160 is considered to be "gifted". 
My self- esteem is at a 94% score.